The Wedding by Silvina Ocampo

 


La Boda (The Wedding) – a strange cruelty pervades this Silvina Ocampo tale.

I picture the narrator looking much like the six-year-old sweetie in the above photo.

Gabriela recounts past events, tells us she had a special relationship with a young woman by the name of Roberta since Roberta paid attention to her, went for walks with her, confided in her and occasionally spoke to her "as if I were big, sometimes as if both of us were six years old."

Then, vintage Silvina Ocampo, a dark foreshadowing: Gabriela informs us she and Roberta could communicate their wants and feelings to one another mind to mind, without the need for words. Also, how Roberta exerted a mysterious control over her - so much so that if Roberta gave her an order to jump out the window or put her hand in coals or run on the tracks and let a train hit her, she would instantly obey.

Gabriela continues: she lived on the outskirts of Córdoba with Roberta across the street and Roberta's cousin Arminda next door - Roberta and Arminda loved each other, when they weren't arguing over things like clothes and boyfriends, that is.

Gabriela really enjoyed when Roberta took her to the beauty salon down the street where she could play with bottles, hairpins, hairdryer, and, most especially, an old wig.

But then Arminda got herself engaged which distracted Gabriela more than the beauty salon or anything else. Matter of fact, Gabriela says during those days she got the worst grades in her whole entire life. And Roberta told her Arminda was luckier than she, Roberta, since "at twenty a woman either had to fall in love or throw herself in the river." Roberta went on to say she wouldn't understand since she was so young.

Days before the wedding, Gabriela relates a conversation between Roberta and Arminda, Arminda arguing her beautiful hairpiece will make everyone look at her. And those wedding preparations, so long and so involved - Arminda's dress, Arminda's hair that she dreamed about all her life, Arminda's huge hairpiece made of netting and a lock of her own hair she cut off when she was fifteen.

The morning of the wedding - hot and sticky. The thermometer reached 105 degrees. She and Roberta went out on the patio. The sky darkened; it looked as if to storm and just then she spotted a huge spider sitting in a nearby vine. She went to get a broom to kill it but Roberta stopped her, told her a spider represents hope, or so it is according to a French lady. She said to Roberta, "If it means hope, let's keep it in a little box." Moving like a sleepwalker, Roberta went to her room to fetch a box.

At this point in the story, Silvia Ocampo, master of the craft, has Gabriela and Roberta exchange these words once Roberta hands Gabriela the box:

"Be careful. They're poisonous," she said.
"And if it bites me?"
"Spiders are like people: they bite to defend themselves. If you don't do anything to them, they won't do anything to you."

Gabriela, having made air holes with a pin, kept the box in her pocket. Later, when she and Roberta went inside the beauty salon to wait for the hairdresser who was attending mass, Roberta sat under the hair dryer that looked like a warrior's helmet while she started playing with Arminda's beautifully made hairpiece sitting there beside her (the hairdresser was the one who put the finishing touches on the elaborate hairpiece and called the creation 'a work of art').

Gabriela asked Roberta if she should put it (the spider) inside the hairpiece. Due to the noise of the hair dryer, she didn't know if Roberta could hear her but Roberta nodded as if in agreement. What happens thereafter is for Silvina Ocampo to tell.

The Wedding surely takes its place among the stories critics at the time judged as "too cruel" and thus denied Silvina a literary award. Reading this tale is quite the experience. Each word, each phrase carries a powerful charge. And such a visual piece. Let's not forget Silvina studied in Paris with artists Giorgio de Chirico and Fernand Léger.

We have a six-year-old girl as narrator. What is it about a little girl that can give a story its emotional punch? Critic and scholar Patricia N Klingenberg wrote in her study of Silvina Ocampo, “The child provides an ideal vantage from which to project the estranged world."

Estranged world, indeed. Can you picture that tight psychic connection between Gabriela and Roberta? What do you make of Roberta's intense rivalry and jealousy with Arminda? I myself can't help thinking of all the guilt Gabriela must live with every day for years and years. I also wonder what would be going through Roberta's mind on her own wedding day. I bet she didn't wear a hairpiece.

*Note: For readers of English this tale can be found in Silvina Ocampo's collection entitled Thus Were Their Faces published by New York Review Books.


Silvina Ocampo, 1903-1993

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